Cancer
relationship traits...
Since Cancerians have a need to feel they
belong, they can be very reluctant to let go of or move
on from situations that give them a sense of emotional security,
and sometimes it is necessary to move on for a Cancer relationship
to blossom.
Cancer is ruled by the Moon, and to have
the Sun in the Moon's sign can indicate a reluctance to
leave the realm of Mother, childhood home and family in
order to undertake the solar task of becoming an individual
in one's own right. This task is symbolised by the move
from Cancer to the next sign Leo, which is ruled by the
Sun.
Cancer is a water sign, and the psychological
opposite is air, the thinking function. If you chart is
lacking in planets in air, you are likely to find it difficult
to view emotionally complex situations in which you may
find yourself with any detachment. This can lead to compatibility
issues in love relationships.
You may be described as 'over-emotional'
by people whose charts are dominated by the element of air
- and maybe you see them as too detached! Suppose you have
the Moon in Aquarius - an air sign - to complement your
Cancerian Sun.
You may be instinctively drawn to an ideal
(an air phenomenon) that conflicts with your need to belong,
and you have to perform an inner negotiation to honour both
parts of your own nature.
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